tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post9148281685486737710..comments2023-05-29T07:02:47.281-07:00Comments on My Clouds, My Storms and Multiple Personality Disorder: A Little Bit of ClarificationRising Rainbowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04239592070775412669noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-58836620422992449632011-05-09T14:16:30.261-07:002011-05-09T14:16:30.261-07:00Hi, I'm just checking through your blogs. I wa...Hi, I'm just checking through your blogs. I want you to know you have a kindred spirit here in people who heal with God and horses. I'm not talking about 'just' the/my recent past, either.Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07482659005625818604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-65266395413212811052011-04-07T10:29:35.854-07:002011-04-07T10:29:35.854-07:00I liked reading your blog because you an i are ve...I liked reading your blog because you an i are very much alike.<br />See, I suffer from borderline personality disorder, so we have a personality disorder in common.<br />http://rachelcneil.blogspot.comrachel neilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15365305584366887730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-76428508075776305402011-01-21T18:37:22.842-08:002011-01-21T18:37:22.842-08:00GP, I'm sorry too. It's a sad situation fo...GP, I'm sorry too. It's a sad situation for sure.Rising Rainbowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04239592070775412669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-35499184819523303982011-01-21T18:20:02.072-08:002011-01-21T18:20:02.072-08:00I'm sorry.I'm sorry.Greener Pastures--A City Girl Goes Countryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05448845964131250749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-38275827005402503272011-01-21T17:16:59.645-08:002011-01-21T17:16:59.645-08:00Ivory, thank you for your support.
GP, I have tri...Ivory, thank you for your support.<br /><br />GP, I have tried everything I can think of including lots of years of counseling but counseling will only work if both parties want it to. My daughter is comfortable the way she is and unfortunately that includes a lot of dishonesty and not just emotional dishonesty. She has crossed some pretty serious lines and I am at a loss. <br /><br />There is nothing I can do to help her because she doesn't think she needs it. She's going to have to figure out for herself that she's in a mess and the only thing that will get her out of it is changing her ways. I hope that day comes for her sake.Rising Rainbowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04239592070775412669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-89313493640057458532011-01-20T20:35:08.761-08:002011-01-20T20:35:08.761-08:00I'm so sorry this is happening. I lost my moth...I'm so sorry this is happening. I lost my mother in April. I'm sorry that I didn't appreciate her like I should have. Knowing I'm never going to have another chance again, really put things into perspective--all the little petty things and control issues and jealousies, etc. were ridiculous on my part. It's really sad that we don't realize these things until it's too late. What a cliche'. I don't know what's the story about you and your daughter but have you tried counseling? A mother and daughter relationship is worth everything you can possibly do.Greener Pastures--A City Girl Goes Countryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05448845964131250749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-22260800222434563812011-01-16T14:30:12.457-08:002011-01-16T14:30:12.457-08:00I agree with your decisions. You have to watch out...I agree with your decisions. You have to watch out for your well being. children, especially, should be more careful about who the are stepping on...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-63095637162489544302011-01-13T13:50:13.370-08:002011-01-13T13:50:13.370-08:00hey can you email me with your phione number as i ...hey can you email me with your phione number as i wanted to call next week to cathc up and ive got a new phone and lost it somewhere on the old one adn cant retrieve itpurple cupcakeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12524297532213815714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-54131727415053688532011-01-10T12:13:41.763-08:002011-01-10T12:13:41.763-08:0063mago, yes, I do. I have 4 all together.63mago, yes, I do. I have 4 all together.Rising Rainbowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04239592070775412669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-62323508941565215552011-01-10T11:51:16.669-08:002011-01-10T11:51:16.669-08:00You have other children?You have other children?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-64188993635089498752011-01-09T14:46:41.089-08:002011-01-09T14:46:41.089-08:00Muddy K, thanks for that. You are so right. It is ...Muddy K, thanks for that. You are so right. It is difficult to do what I believe to be the right thing both for myself and my daughter. To continue on like nothing happened would be to enable her bad behavior and I will not do that either. Protecting myself from getting hurt is not my only motive.<br /><br />English Rider, you are right about that. While my daughter quit druggs many years ago, she has still self medicated all this time. <br /><br />While I know you aren't making excuses, for the sake of readers who might be looking for healthy information I think it's important to note that the addict choses to self medicate to avoid dealing with issues and they are still responsible for those choices. <br /><br />My daughter is indeed an addict. While she talks like that is something from her past, she is still very much involved in self medicating practices. She just uses other things to achieve the desired result. It is very sad.Rising Rainbowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04239592070775412669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-80319706089598824452011-01-09T13:44:28.577-08:002011-01-09T13:44:28.577-08:00It is obviously hurtful and disappointing that you...It is obviously hurtful and disappointing that your daughter has not evolved into the Human you would wish her to be. Although not an excuse, I heard a recovering addict say that his development had been arrested whilst he was on drugs. No experiences were learned from as they were buffered by his drug taking. It made sense.English Riderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01712384532126551307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-25507184576624307982011-01-08T06:31:35.169-08:002011-01-08T06:31:35.169-08:00It's hard to say something meaningful when I d...It's hard to say something meaningful when I don't know much of the story, but I do know this. It takes bravery and strength to live as the person you are, not the person others want you to be. It takes bravery and strength to go on as yourself when others abandon you because you can't play a part in their delusions.<br /><br />You can never do anything that amounts to erasing who you are, not for any one, not for any reason. I think you have the strength to resist that, even if it means letting go of people who need you to be less than you are so they can be more than they are.<br /><br />Brave.Muddy Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07937615888562277779noreply@blogger.com