tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post4985287347762824117..comments2023-05-29T07:02:47.281-07:00Comments on My Clouds, My Storms and Multiple Personality Disorder: She Knows How to Deal with a MultipleRising Rainbowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04239592070775412669noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-80112349156389614552008-08-09T04:45:00.000-07:002008-08-09T04:45:00.000-07:00I am also insulted whenever I meet one of those pe...I am also insulted whenever I meet one of those people who knows how to "handle" a person of whatever diagnosis. I also hate being seen as my diagnosis and being dehumanized, as if my feelings mean nothing and I mean nothing. I had a situation happen about a month ago that may make you laugh. This idiot con artist found my MySpace profile that is one of my ways to hopefully promote my book. He seemed to notice three things. That I was an older (over 40) female, that I was not thin, and that I had a mental disorder. He somehow failed to notice that I put "in a relationship" on my profile. He started hitting on me real hot and heavy. At first I thought he was just creepy, then I realized he was trying to schmooze me for a green card and I went off on him. People who make the mistake of seeing me as weak and easily manipulated because of my bipolar "blessing" are in for a big surprise!<BR/>Unfortunately it's a lifetime of dealing with such predators that has made me far less trusting.<BR/>It's hard when the predators may be members of our own family, and people that we care about. Some people are just that way.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05779107279394475454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-82420462089985506342008-08-09T04:37:00.000-07:002008-08-09T04:37:00.000-07:00It's interesting to me that some people seem to be...It's interesting to me that some people seem to be born with manipulative tendencies. They are very difficult to deal with. And we do have to protect ourselves from them even though it may hurt to distance ourselves.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05779107279394475454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-3285719291514456522008-08-06T18:59:00.000-07:002008-08-06T18:59:00.000-07:00I know I am a random stranger to this blog but whi...I know I am a random stranger to this blog but while doing research for my organization I came across it. I hope you don't mind as I am unaware of your history but I cringed when I read, "know how to deal with a multiple." I hate being reduced to a label with my friends and especially my family. I don't need to be dealt with at all but if I did, I would prefer it to be said, "I know how to deal with Jaime." I am still a person. I am more then my label. It's about respect. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for allowing me to post here. I hope I didn't offend. <BR/><BR/>Jaime <BR/>If you're interested... <BR/>An Infinite Mind<BR/>www.aninfinitemind.comJaime (An Infinite Mind)https://www.blogger.com/profile/09554167166028699711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-64373781370634164632008-08-05T15:39:00.000-07:002008-08-05T15:39:00.000-07:00Pushing my luck...A blog topic ....For selfish rea...Pushing my luck...<BR/><BR/>A blog topic ....<BR/><BR/>For selfish reasons...<BR/><BR/>But to make clear it isnt about blogland but RL ...<BR/><BR/>How do I know I can trust someone?<BR/><BR/>Or more specific, I am in a position that I can do someone a favour... but I am not sure if I do it then they will stab me in the back... And doing them the favour I will put them in a position where they can do that.<BR/><BR/>I want to be loyal, but I wonder if they will be disloyal in return... ?<BR/><BR/>Any tell-tale signs?<BR/><BR/>Loyalty is dead important to me.<BR/><BR/>(btw you know who i am but I like to be anon when I allude to work my friend.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-7202292477393891562008-08-05T14:06:00.000-07:002008-08-05T14:06:00.000-07:00I am thinking of you too....I am thinking of you too....Kahlesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00500615451909999365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-44376355174389804032008-08-05T00:27:00.000-07:002008-08-05T00:27:00.000-07:00tried to call you today but you werent home just w...tried to call you today but you werent home just wanted you to know we are thinking about youjumpinginpuddleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02701383598841540578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-38942138939888687942008-08-03T13:48:00.000-07:002008-08-03T13:48:00.000-07:00any one who says they know how to deal with a mult...any one who says they know how to deal with a multiple immediately tells me they know diddly squat cause if they did they wouldnt need to announce it and usually directly afterward they do something to tell you they know diddly squatjumpinginpuddleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02701383598841540578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-23757771201230094792008-08-02T12:37:00.000-07:002008-08-02T12:37:00.000-07:00we can offer no advice when it comes to children a...we can offer no advice when it comes to children and their illogical treatment of their multiple parent. We are still trying to figure that out to no avail. Go with your gut and instinct and protect yourself first is all we wcan say, that and we send you hugs<BR/><BR/>peace and blessings<BR/><BR/>KeepersAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-81305198173067870092008-08-01T11:31:00.000-07:002008-08-01T11:31:00.000-07:00RR,I am sorry that you have to make this hard choi...RR,<BR/><BR/>I am sorry that you have to make this hard choice in order to protect yourself. But, you do have to protect yourself. <BR/><BR/>Sending you lots of love and support,<BR/>TamaraTamara (TC) Stapleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00633350990983632539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-12700841587591104372008-07-31T13:55:00.000-07:002008-07-31T13:55:00.000-07:00And if she doesnt realise that there is a problem,...And if she doesnt realise that there is a problem, or classifies it as a small one, then I suspect she really doesn't 'see' you at the moment either and therefore could do harm again, even if it is unintentional.Kahlesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00500615451909999365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-12466229891521436882008-07-31T13:51:00.000-07:002008-07-31T13:51:00.000-07:00kahless, I am afraid that you are right. As much a...kahless, I am afraid that you are right. As much as I wish things could be different, I just can't see any other way to protect myself. It's clear that my daughter can not be trusted to be honest. Game playing is too much a second nature to her.Rising Rainbowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04239592070775412669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2187441051484747220.post-33739220123794892932008-07-31T11:34:00.000-07:002008-07-31T11:34:00.000-07:00when I read "knows how to deal with a multiple" I ...when I read "knows how to deal with a multiple" I thought the same; that statement says it all (that she certainly doesnt.)<BR/><BR/>Surely it is about knowing the person first and foremost.<BR/><BR/>You definately need to protect yourself as a priority.Kahlesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00500615451909999365noreply@blogger.com